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Philip
Greentree has adapted the Orthodox church ceremony to Australian civil requirements.
Yes!
I do
perform Orthodox ceremonies
in
Sydney
including
weekdays |
This ceremony is easily adapted to
Greek, Serbian, Macedonian, Russian, Ukrainian, Roumanian
& other Eastern Orthodox based cultures.
All the traditional rituals such
as crowning with stefana, wine sharing etc have been retained.
Optional
rituals included

Leon & Liz being crowned at St Patrick's Nulkaba. Photo Chris Elfes |
Crowning
with stefana ...
the bride and groom are "crowned" by the koumbaro to show that the couple are
the King and Queen of their union as man and wife.
Candle ceremony ... the bride
and groom each hold a lighted candle, which symbolizes the light of purity in
their lives.
Ring
exchange ceremony ...
the koumbara(o) exchanges the rings three times. The exchange signifies that in married
life, the weakness of one partner will be compensated by the strength of the other,
the imperfections of one, by the perfection of the other. By themselves, the newly
betrothed are incomplete, but together they are made perfect.
Near the end of the cermony, I invite the bride to remove her rings from the right hand to the left to comply with Australian custom.
Special Candle Ceremony... simply brilliant in a mixed cultural ceremony. The couple's parents light two candles, each representing the two familes. At te end of the ceremony, the couple use their family's flame to light a third, unity candle repsenting not just the creation of a new line, but the creation of that new culture we call Austalia.
Sharing wine from the common
cup ... this represents the "common cup" of life denoting the
mutual sharing of joy and sorrow, the token of a life of harmony. The drinking
of wine from the common cup serves to impress upon the couple that from that moment
on they will share everything in life, joys, as well as sorrows, and that they
are to "bear one another’s burdens." Their joys will be doubled and their sorrows
halved because they will be shared.
Hand-joining
...
the couple hold hands, symbolizing that they are joined as one. Depending on your culture wil determine whether or not the wrists are covered with a satin cloth.
Other
local rituals at
your option
In my civil ceremonies,
there is no reason why the groom can't meet his bride as she
arrives outside t the wedding place, then walk her in to where
they are to be married.
The
Koumbara(o) (Greek), Kum(a) (Serbian)
In
the Orthodox ceremony, the religious sponsor (sort of like the God Parent in western
churches) plays a significant role.
For
the civil ceremony, the best man or best women acts as the koumbara or koumbaro.
Yes, I once attended an Orthodox Greek wedding, where the groom had a best woman.
I thought that was pretty cool. Since then, in fact, I have had two weddings in 2007 alone, where the groom had a best woman! How times have changed! |

Stan and Kristy's Greek wedding at Cyprus Lakes Resort |

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| Silvana & David being crowned by Silvana's best Australian friend acting as the Kuma. This was one of the happiest weddings I have performed! |
Make
Your Own Stefana (Crowns)

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One
of Philip's Newcastle clients was so surprised at the high cost of purchasing
a commercially made stefana, she made her own.
Close-up of the gold chain
mounted on the gold loop
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to Enlarge
Silvana
decided on gold crowns for her Serbian Orthodox wedding and the result was, simply
stunning.
Her
total cost? Firstly,
she purchased everything from the Spotlight store in Newcastle. Cost: Metal rings
$ 2.99 each , Gold Chain $1.40 - 1.60 p/metre (I used 1 metre for each ring),
packet of beads/crystals $ 3.00, beading wire to attach beads $2.50 spool of ribbon
$ 2.00 - so total cost worked out to approx. $ 19.00 - that's correct,
$19. Silvana said that if she had made the stefana from white satin, instead of
gold chain, the cost would have been a lot less.

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philip.greentree |
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